Good home-repair question — answering as the UphillTech team:
To do it (as per your first question) without adding material: Grind the higher side down. How far you have to grind depends on the required "subfloor flatness" spec of your flooring system, which you have not provided. Fortunately gypcrete grinds easily. Using thinset and a long float to add to the lower side could also work. Again, how far out that needs to go depends on the flatness spec required for your flooring system to install correctly.
Full answer by Ecnerwal: https://diy.stackexchange.com/a/312838 (CC BY-SA 4.0).
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